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Best dating site jakarta Online Dating Sites & Apps In Indonesia (2016 Update) Online Dating Sites & Apps In Indonesia (2016 Update

By Thibaud (Jakarta100bars)
I once wrote a review about dating Indonesian girls and where to meet them. You can still read it here: Frases pensadores argentina? Most of the information on the review is still valid, but it certainly needs an update on the world of online dating through websites or social apps such as Badoo, Tinder, WeChat, Skoot, Beetalk, etc.

If you are looking for a great girl in Jakarta, online dating is by far your best chance. 90% of the girls there are looking for a stable relationship. Another 9% is looking for money. And maybe less than 1 percent is looking for a one night stand (not the hottest girls usually). The fact that they are looking for a stable relationship does not mean they want to get married straight away. It means they want to feel a long term relationship is possible. For this reason, it may be more difficult for you to find a date if you are not staying in Indonesia and if you do not speak Indonesian.

Depending on which website or which app you use, you can pretty much chat with any type of women you could think of: Students, employees, executives, single mom, etc from any ethnicity or religion. There is such a diversity that it would be hard to generalize. To give you a better understanding, I will describe the specificities of each dating app or website below:

When Tinder started in Indonesia, most of its users where either foreign or Western educated girls. Its base has now expanded, but it is still the most trendy app to use. For this reason, this is where you will meet the most girls who can speak English and who have well-paid jobs. This is also where the most girls are interested to meet foreigners.

Portal de frases curtas (Mobile app and website)
Badoo used to be the best dating website to use in Indonesia but it has been ruined by online prostitution. A third of the girls on Badoo will now ask for money. They also have a mobile app which is called "Hot or Not". It has a very large number of users, with usually several hundred women online at anytime in Jakarta.

Badoo attracts 99,9% of Indonesian girls, from all background. You can filter girls by age, location, status, body type, etc. Most girls can speak English and many are interested to meet foreigners. Sitios donde se puede encontrar pareja are very active on the site unfortunately.

Namoro ha 6 anos (Mobile app and dating site)
Skout is similar to Badoo but only works on a mobile phone. The ads are quite annoying so I didn't like using it. It has a fair number of Indonesian girls using it.

Relacionamento facebook (Mobile app only)
WeChat has a "look around" feature which allows you to add girls located within a few kilometers from you. If they accept your invitation, you can start chatting with them.

Many ladyboys and prostitutes use that feature so it can be quite annoying if this is not what you are looking for. You will also probably receive a lot of invitations from other guys. Girls using this feature do not always speak English very well. It is popular with the Chinese community but your chances of getting a reply is low unless you speak Chinese.

Beetalk users are mostly Indonesian and young. It has a "look around" feature as well which is quite invasive as it tells you the exact position of the people around you. If you use it in popular malls like Grand Indonesia or Central Park, it will probably tell you a list of person within a very close range, sometimes a few meters only.

Few girls using Beetalk speak good English so it is more appropriate for those with a basic knowledge of Indonesian. It is a good app but not the most effective for foreigners.

сайт знакомств на my love (Mobile app and website)
Tagged and Hi5 are the same service since they merged in 2011. It used to be one of the most popular social networks in Indonesia but it is struggling now. It is still a relatively interesting website to try as the number of Indonesian users is quite large. I would say that girls on Tagged are usually a bit older: They made their Hi5 account 10 years ago and they haven't closed it yet.

Conclusion
All these dating apps and websites are free but you have to pay if you want to get some VIP features. For instance, becoming a paid member will generally entitle you to send more messages, to see who clicked on your profile or to be seen first by girls.

There are probably some scammers too so you should naturally always make sure the person you are talking to is real. I would recommend asking for the girl's facebook or skype.
There are other services that I haven't tried but they might work well. If you have used one of the following to find a date in Jakarta, it would be nice if you could write a comment about it below:

Site de rencontre top gratuit: Popular dating website but I don't think it is available in Indonesia at this moment.

Site de rencontre 29000: One of the most popular dating apps in the world but I read some negative reviews about their privacy policy so I did not want to try it.

Rencontres d'arles photography festival 2016: Very popular social media in Indonesia, mostly with the younger crowd. It is not a real dating website but it is used as such by many Indonesians to make friends or get a date.

Site rencontre gitane is an Indonesian dating app which just started. It does not have a very large database of users at the moment.

Rencontres sérieuses nord pas de calais is an Indonesian dating website which could be promising but it is still new and I encountered some problems to register.

Site rencontre ado en ligne and Andrew garfield and emma stone dating july 2016 are online dating sites where men must pay to send messages. They have the same database of users as they belong to the same group Cupid Media. Beware: Many websites recommend those two apps just because they get commissions.

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  1. Hello Thibaud, some of your points are right and spot on. If i may add some inputs from my experience with those application. I'm a young Indonesian careerwoman with expat partner.

    1. Tinder
    The it application in my social circle. The facebook of online dating. I started playing after introduced by a friend and eventually met my expat partner. This application attract crowds from middle class to wealthy Indonesian, attractive looks, have a good education = able to speak English, have a stable income.
    If you are looking for an Indonesian girl for sex, relationship or having fun together, you can find It here. I know of many expat/indo couple met from this app, as for sex, my partner friends always have at least one new girl a week. But, for relationship, this is your best bet to find someone who is not interested in your skin (bule!) and money (provided you select them carefully)

    2. Badoo & Skout
    For me, It’s too much scam(I quit after the 5th scam) and some that are genuine already have Tinder. So what's the point?
    On the other hand, I know of several expats that got one night stands from this app and one who progress to friends with benefits. For stable relationship, I only know of Indonesian couple.

    3. OkCupid
    The Myspace of Online dating. This was the most popular online dating before the era of Mobile dating app. A friend of mine told me about her "Bule Hunter" friends, who utilized this site to hunt expats in Jakarta and were quite successful. Now they moved on to the apps.

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  2. I think OKCupid is the best dating site. We can check the potential background and personality thingy.

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  3. My rankings for best dating apps in Indonesia:
    Tinder: No1 for intelligent, free-spirited, independent women
    SKOUT and Badoo: Many prostitutes or girls who "don't like stingy guys". Still interesting but you'll probably need to pay to get some extra features.
    We Chat: Prostitutes and ladyboys
    Beetalk: Most underrated dating app: Free, lots of normal girls from all walks of life. To work you just need to add as many girls as possible in your vicinity. I get about 10% acceptance rate. Then chat. Big problem is that many girls cannot speak good english on Beetalk.
    The other dating sites: scams.

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  4. I'm surprised no mention of tagged... it's working quite well... also I like Skout... Badoo is the best dating app in Indonesia but only if you can pay for special features ...

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  5. Don't try Setipe.com, it's a scam. First you have to pay, and then you discover you can only get terrible matches. Useless.

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  6. I am Indonesia with Chinese ethnic. I have tried most of apps mentioned above and I can say my journey of finding expat partner is still a longgggg way because my profile doesn't even attract foreigners (i like caucasian) or even if i matched with foreigners, all they wanted were one night stand or just fooling around.
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  7. Anonymous

    Anyone has tried the Indonesian app AkuJomblo?

  8. Al.

    Online dating in Indonesia is ruined by all the prostitution. Now on Badoo you have at least 50% of the girls who are looking for money. The rest is either ugly, fat or they wear jilbab.

    No more dating apps for me, I just go meet girls in malls, nothing easier you just need to smile and say hi. Most girls are very friendly and will give their numbers easily.

  9. Anonymous

    Interesting. Me, a Norwegian Viking with blond hair and blue eyes, was looking for a girl in Indonesia, and no scammer. You feel free to write me an email: trucccer@yahoo. com (yes, 3 times c )

  10. Malcom

    Badoo is not a dating site, it is a prostitution site!

  11. Anonymous

    Tinder and Badoo/Blendr has the best results and the app doesn't fuck around.
    Example, Paktor, after some initial success, suddenly made all the girls who like me only unlockable if I pay to see them. I know this after realizing it for some time. And non paying users are put very rarely for someone think view.

    Back to Badoo/Tinder, both r great especially with Tinder's superlike and accurate location filter(which makes it more focused but it means a finite selection) while Badoo's people nearby is really far reaching and the 'star' helps you keep track of great profiles with updates if they add photos and every 2 days you get a 'featured' freebie which gets you easily 10-25 views in 10mins. It also notifies you that someone likes you with a blurred photo while tinder doesn't.

    I personally use badoo more, partially do I don't have to on my GPS/data/wifiscanner which tinder insists it has to be on n I have to disable it again thereafter

    If you decide to pay, both apps are great.

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